Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry

2026 weekly newsletter dear mater the formative home theme spotlight Sep 23, 2026

Pray, hope, and don't Worry

Today's saint, Padre Pio, was formed in a farmhouse. The Forgiones of Pietrelcina were peasant farmers who could not read, yet they went to Mass every morning and said the Rosary every night, and by age five the boy growing up in that rhythm had already decided to give his whole life to God. His father went to America to earn the money for the schooling the friars required, and the priest who came out of that sacrifice spent much of his life in a confessional, often ten or twelve hours a day. That is his whole lesson for a family: prayer as ordinary as bread, confession as regular as a haircut. If it has been a while, take the children this week, and let them see you go in first and come out lighter. Our Child's Guide to Confession walks little ones through the sacrament step by step, with prayers and a take-to-confession checklist.

Confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed.
— James 5:16

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Happening at CHECH

Seek Her Counsel

Are you feeling overwhelmed by a challenging school week? Wondering how to guide a child's heart through a hard stage? Dear Mater takes on questions from CHECH families, drawing on Scripture, the saints, and a lot of lived experience. Here's a question we're taking up: "How will I know my child will find their vocation?" Read the answer on our website. We'd love to hear yours too, bring your questions, your tired moments, your worries, and we'll lay them under Mary's mantle together. Some will be answered right here in the column, others will become workshop topics at this year's Open House.  Submit your question — always anonymous if you'd like.

Family Picnic and Folk Dance

Dinner on the lawn, then family folk dances with Meghan Frato.  See the flyer for the full schedule, or visit the Fall Gathering page to register. Registration closes September 23.


Theme Spotlight

Beginning the Year with Intentional Spaces

The Formative Home invites us to look at our homes with fresh eyes this year: the ordered kitchen, the made bed, the corner where the books live. September is the month to start there, not with a full home makeover, but with one space made beautiful on purpose. A clean surface, a candle, a single piece of art at a child's eye level, small signals that this room is where learning and prayer happen, long before a lesson begins. 

Challenge: pick one room or corner this week and make it a little more beautiful, then notice whether your children treat it differently.

Upcoming in Houston

The Merry Wives of Windsor — Points North Theatre CompanySat Sept 26, 5–8 p.m. (outdoor, Rob Fleming Park) or Oct 3, 6:30–9:30 p.m. (indoor, A/C) | Free | Shakespeare's comedy featuring Falstaff; bring lawn chairs outdoors

Help Your Teen Find Their College Fit — BigFuture | Mon Sept 29 | Free webinar | With Jeff Selingo | Comparing college options beyond rankings

Romeo and Juliet — Alley Theatre | Sept 25–Oct 11 | Hubbard Theatre | Shakespeare's tragedy, dir. Rob Melrose | Tickets on sale

Newman Guide Virtual College Fair | Thu Oct 8, online | Free, registration required | Live admissions chat with Newman Guide colleges; co-hosted with Kolbe Academy, so reps know homeschool transcripts

Fire Prevention Week: Charge Into Fire Safety | Sat Oct 10, 9:30 a.m.–1:30 p.m. | Houston Fire Museum | Free | Lithium-ion battery safety, fire truck rides, puppet show, Sparky, crafts

Long Acres Ranch Homeschool Science: Ichthyology | Oct 20–22, 9–11 a.m. | Long Acres Ranch | $5 cash | Ages 8+ | Study of fish; registration required, spots fill quickly

CATHEDRALS: Kingdomtide Edition | Tue Oct 27 | Co-Cathedral of the Sacred Heart | $43.56–$133, groups of 10+ save 10% | Worship night marking Kingdomtide with Unbound

Building Your Holy Family: The Catholic Blueprint | Fri–Sat Nov 13–14 | Great Wolf Lodge, Webster | $75–$375, clergy free | Fullness of Truth's 25th annual Fall Catholic Family Conference, with Mass, Adoration, and waterpark access

Hillsdale K–12 American History and Civics Curriculum | Free | Full curriculum access with lesson plans, assessments, primary sources, and searchable flip books | Includes a free course on teaching American history

Dig Pit — HMNS Sugar Land | Ages 3–11 | Grab shovels, brushes, and trowels and uncover cast fossil dinosaur bones | Identify finds using the "Can you find it?" charts | Add-on to general admission, free parking 


Catholic Printable Club

If your printer has become a full-time member of your homeschool, Catholic Printable Club is worth a look. Their library covers everything from saint studies and liturgical-year activities to copywork and coloring pages, all designed to bring the faith into ordinary schoolwork without another curriculum to plan. New printables are added regularly, so it's a resource CHECH families can return to month after month. CHECH members receive 50% off the first month, personal memberships normally run $8/month, and classroom memberships for co-ops or small groups run $16/month, find your member discount code here. Shop the club, and find them among our partners on the CHECH Partnerships page.